How to Ask Your Maid of Honor for Help

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming with endless tasks to complete. It can also feel isolating as you're unsure if anyone cares as much as you do about your special day. One of the wedding planning tips no one tells you is how to have conversations with your maid of honor on how they can help during your journey and your expectations of them. Does this need to be a super formal conversation? Not at all! But, you should make time to discuss the help you need from them.

Here are a few ideas of tasks you might ask of them:

1. Remind bridesmaids/groomsmen of key deadlines.

   Although your bridesmaids are super excited for you, they do have lives outside of being part of your wedding. That means they could be a bit forgetful on deadlines like scheduling fittings and alterations, ordering shoes, etc. This is the perfect task for a maid of honor (MOH). You could provide a list of key tasks and when they need to be completed by, then have your MOH text the group with reminders to make sure everyone is timely and on the same page.

   
   

2. Help narrow down vendor options.

   If you're experincing "analysis paralysis", reach out to your maid of honor for help. Their opinion shouldn't trump that of your 'soon-to-be spouses' but it could be helpful to have another view and perspective.

   
   

3. Help with DIY projects.

   Save yourself a few paper cuts and ask for help! DIY projects can range from addressing envelopes to putting together favors to building furniture. Whatever it is, don't be afraid to ask for a hand for a few hours on a Saturday to complete a project. Grab some snacks, put on music, and get to it!

   
   

Beyond the pre-wedding tasks, she should serve as your right-hand woman, emotional support on your wedding day, and take part in the celebration. So should your bridesmaids and loved ones, which is why Everlasting Moments Co. exists.

We understand curating the wedding day of your dreams requires lots of help. Our team is dedicated to supporting you and simplifying the chaos. Our goal is to provide support leading up to the wedding and ensure that every aspect of your wedding day goes smoothly, allowing you to relax and enjoy the moment without having to worry about the details. From coordinating logistics with vendors and managing the day-of timeline, we are here to provide organized and kind assistance every step of the way.

So, if you are looking for professionals to simplify your wedding day and ensure that every detail is taken care of, Everlasting Moments Co. is here and ready to assist! Let us focus on the details while you focus on celebrating your love and making memories.